There is a promising approach to saving a marriage that many women have not thought of trying! When they discover this approach, saving the marriage is more natural and quicker!
It is a proven method that is not often used as the go-to strategy to save marriages.
Often couples skip this strategy when working on repairing a marriage.
Let’s break down this strategy using my client “Suzy’s” experience…
My client “Suzy” thought she was going to die. Well… maybe that’s a bit dramatic! But it’s kind of true.
Her marriage was so BAD that…
She struggled with normal stuff like breathing.
She woke up with puffy eyes from crying so much!
If it wasn’t for her kids, she wouldn’t get out of bed.
QUESTIONS LIKE… “What could I have done better?” would creep into her mind!
Every day was tough! Her future seemed scary and uncertain!
However….
It’s actually the opposite!!
Her life was everything but uncertain!
Her dysfunctional marriage was a window! A window into her heart and soul!
All those yucky feelings were “the exact things” that would heal her pain!
When we first met, I asked her to start tracking her emotions for 48-hours.
She wrote down when she felt..
- Sad
- Angry Resentful
- Shame
- Frustration
And she recorded EACH trigger & EACH emotion.
These feelings/triggers were her body’s way of communicating what she needed!
THE FEELINGS WERE TELLING HER…
- I am so inadequate
- I am not safe
- I can’t get what I want
- I can’t trust anyone
- I don’t deserve ____
And so began her journey to healing herself and healing her marriage at the same time!!
She began showing up more effectively in her marriage!
In subtle ways… she slowly eroded feeling unlovable, needy, like a failure and insecure.
It is this unconventional strategy that works!!
It NEVER fails!
My clients always come out feeling happier and more certain about their future!
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