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You Can’t Change Your Spouse? Or Can You?
Boundaries

How to Change Your Husband in Three Steps

We have always been told that you can’t change someone. And yes… that only kind of true. There are 3 strategies that my clients use to influence change within their partners. #1- Process Past Pain & Hurt from Your Marriage-  When you can release anger, resentment and sadness from past interactions with your partner, then

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Having Moments Where you Blame Yourself for Your Partner’s Affair
Marriage Tips

Having Moments Where you Blame Yourself for Your Partner’s Affair

The days after finding out about the affair are beyond heart wrenching, emotional and so confusing! There are so many thoughts spiraling around your mind! But then a funny thing happens…. you may start to question your role in the affair!  Some wives partly blame themselves and start to feel guilty! These thoughts may surface…

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Should I Read All the Affair Messages
Marriage Tips

Should I Read All the Affair Messages?

Discovering that your partner has been unfaithful is a horribly traumatic event that shatters many aspects of one’s life!  During those first weeks many spouses are on a TRUTH SEEKING HUNT.  They desire to understand the story and details of what happened and how it happened.  This information can be an essential part of the

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Marriage Tips

This Is the Most Important Relationship You Will Ever Have

I just wanted to give you an important (and often forgotten) reminder. The most important relationship in your life…. Is the one with yourself! You are your own best friend! You are the only one who needs to make decisions for you! You are the one who has the control to manifest happiness! We tend

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3 Ways to Save a Marriage & Feel Happier
Marriage Tips

3 Ways to Save a Marriage & Feel Happier

You have been feeling unhappy for months!  Maybe years.   Although a marriage in trouble is upsetting, it can often be repaired more easily than you think. Many couples start to come apart once kids arrive or they become immersed in their career development.  They experience financial troubles, health concerns, extended family conflicts, parenting issues, infidelity

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Saving Your Marriage In Only 10-weeks
Marriage Tips

You Can’t Change Your Spouse? Or Can You?

We have always been told that you can’t change someone. And yes, that is only kind of true. When you were first dating, your partner could do no wrong. They wooed and romanced you so well that you barely noticed their quirky little habits. But now, after years of marriage, what was once a cute

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When Fear Keeps You From Leaving Your Marriage
Marriage Tips

When Fear Keeps You From Leaving Your Marriage

Deciding whether to file for divorce or to keep working on your marriage can be a difficult lengthy process- but it doesn’t have to be.  Sadly, SAVING A MARRIAGE is not always possible!  And the reason… you can’t control what the other partner does! But what is a guarantee is that you can get to

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This is why you can’t rebuild trust!
Infidelity & Trust

Why you can’t rebuild Trust

Forgiving and trusting after an affair, adultery, infidelity, crossing emotional boundaries (whatever you want to call it)…. Can only START TO HAPPEN  when…  You STOP playing detective! UGH- I know what you are thinking! So many women feel like they need to be on “high alert” because they don’t want to let it happen again! 

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