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How to Manage Obsessive Thoughts in Your Marriage
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How to Manage Obsessive Thoughts in Your Marriage

Did your partner cheat on you?  Are you sometimes overcome by anger for what seems like “no” reason? Intrusive thoughts after infidelity are a common and extremely painful symptom of what has been called Post Infidelity Stress Disorder. Often these thoughts come from the “need to know” exactly what happened between your husband and the

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Overcoming Marriage Struggles 101

I use this technique with ALL my clients. By the end of our session, they are happy!   Really happy! They feel lighter! Like a weight has lifted off. I use this technique as a quick and easy way to get over… Anger Being a People Pleaser Infidelity & Jealousy Resentment Traumas  Low Self Confidence Grief

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Marriage Tips

There is a Hidden Reason Why Couples Counseling Won’t Work

The thing is…. The topic that couples are arguing about is rarely the REAL reason for the disagreement.  Believe it or not! This is why going to couple’s counseling is not the BEST first step to fixing marriage struggles. In fact, going to couples counseling can cause more harm! Couples need to do individual work

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Marriage Tips

Should I keep working at my marriage?

Many wives are tormented by the decision to stay or go?  They lose sleep at night thinking about whether their marriage will last! They feel distracted by the noisy, obsessive thoughts about what the future holds. They feel trapped, stuck and lost! Whether to stay in your marriage is a BIG decision!   The good news

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Marriage Tips

Wanting the constant arguments with your partner to end?

Fighting constantly over the smallest things with your partner is emotionally and physically draining.  Many wives are so tired of the constant and ongoing arguments.  They often feel like they are  walking on eggshells trying to navigate their husband’s mood, so as to avoid a heated discussion. Some degree of conflict is healthy, as it

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my husband won't go to marriage counseling
Marriage Tips

When Your Husband Won’t Go to Therapy

Is your partner refusing to go to therapy?  Does he not feel comfortable sharing your marriage struggles with a stranger? Or maybe he feels like the counselor will gang up on him? Does he not think your marriage struggles are that “bad”? So if your husband won’t go to Couples Therapy, the good news is

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Marriage Tips

5 Habits that Could Ruin Your Marriage

Every marriage experiences problems at some point, no matter how long you have been married. When in the midst of marriage problems it can be intense, confusing, loney and painful.  The hurt can cut deep, but it doesn’t have to take years to heal! Many wives going through marriage issues feel so angry, hopeless and

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Marriage Tips

Is Your Husband Nicer to Friends and Strangers?

Have you noticed that your husband treats you differently than everyone else, in a bad way?  Does your partner treat others with patience and politeness? Does your partner laugh and joke around more with other people? Does your partner seem kinder and more attentive with other people? Do you feel like other people get to

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Marriage Tips

The Real Reason Couples are Unhappy

You see, you’re not alone! 80% of couples are unhappy. That’s a lot of unhappy people! So many couples are stuck in the ongoing cycles of frustrating miscommunications, recurring arguments and nasty blowups! Doing what you are doing is not fixing your marriage problems (otherwise you most likely wouldn’t be here). Your relationship is doing

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Infidelity & Trust

5 Ways to Rebuild Trust after an Affair

So your husband cheated! It is heart shattering and life changing news! There are no words to describe the magnitude of pain and betrayal! You may have suspected he had been cheating for some time, but now it is real!  And on some level, it may feel good to finally know the truth! But you

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