At Soulify, we fully understand that many husband’s are resistant to going to Couples Therapy.
Many wives find us out of desperation to find any solution that will help mend their marriage! These wives have been suffering for months and years in an unhappy marriage!
Over time, many wives start to close off their hearts because it doesn’t feel safe to love after having all their suggestions to mend the marriage shut down.
Many wives endure years of resistance which leads to feeling resentful because they don’t feel supported in their quest to find a solution to fix their marriage.
After many failed attempts to get their husband on board to go to counseling, feeling hopeless sets in, which can further close a heart to their spouse.
So before I talk about opening your heart….
It is important that you know you can save a marriage on your own.
And the first step is to NO LONGER IGNORE the emotions that arise when you feel triggered.
Picture this …
You feel like you keep having the same argument– FEELING FRUSTRATED!
Your marriage has more bad days than good days- FEELING DEFEATED!
You wish your partner would compliment you more- FEELING SAD!
Your partner doesn’t help out- FEELING RESENTFUL!
Your partner likes other women’s posts on social media- FEELING JEALOUS
These are ALL EMOTIONS THAT GET ACTIVATED WITHIN YOU because of your partner’s interactions with you.
These emotions get activated within you when TRIGGERED!
When you ignore the feelings of Frustration, Defeat, Sadness, and Jealousy….
Then you strengthen that emotion within you each time your partner acts that way.
The same emotion gets activated as if it were a habit!
Eventually that emotion becomes your automatic go to response to your partner’s behaviors and comments.
WHY DO THIS TO YOURSELF?!?
You have the POWER to never feel those emotions in those situations again!
You have the power to have a BETTER MARRIAGE!
Through unblocking and releasing the pain of being shut down by your husband you will be able to OPEN YOUR HEART again!
To feel HAPPY in your marriage!
To KEEP YOUR FAMILY TOGETHER!
But before fixing your marriage’s foundation you need to fix your own foundation!
All too often, couples tackle the marriage before the individual!
Step 1 must be…
Getting your subconscious and conscious mind in alignment!
So you feel confident, loved & good enough!
And…. so you no longer feel out of control, like you did something wrong, like you can’t trust or need to shut down!
Once you are on stable ground….
Your marriage will become so much better, so fast!
The reason….
Because you show-up differently for your partner!
The interaction between the two of you drastically shifts because you no longer feel triggered by the same old conversations!
That is what saves a marriage!
It starts with you!
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