Should I keep working at my marriage?

Many wives are tormented by the decision to stay or go? 

They lose sleep at night thinking about whether their marriage will last!

They feel distracted by the noisy, obsessive thoughts about what the future holds.

They feel trapped, stuck and lost!

Whether to stay in your marriage is a BIG decision!  

The good news is that finding the answer is easier than you think!

The reason why is because the answers are always within you!  Yup!  Your intuition will guide you.  No need to stress!  No need to make pro and con lists! 

The problem with answering a question like this is that many wives look too far into the future when trying to decide.

Instead…

  • Answer it based on “today”.
  • Answer it based on “right now”
  • Answer it based on “this moment”

Try this….

Ask yourself,  “At this moment, should I give my marriage another chance?”  Get still.  What is your gut reaction?  Do you hear a yes or no?  Did you feel a lightness to your body or a sinking feeling in your gut?  Your body will give you a subtle answer.

After you hear or feel the answer, your ego may then pipe up and try to convince you to do the opposite.  It usually chimes in a second after your intuition. 

And remember, your answer today does not need to be the same answer tomorrow. This takes the pressure off.  All we know is NOW.  We don’t have a crystal ball to predict our future.

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This is exactly what I show my private clients how to do. If you would like my 1-on-1 help creating a customized Free Marriage Roadmap, then book your Complimentary 15-minute “Marriage Roadmap” call where I will give you a strategy that you can implement right away to get your marriage moving in the direction you need to do to save your marriage fast. That’s it.

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