The thing is….
The topic that couples are arguing about is rarely the REAL reason for the disagreement.
Believe it or not!
This is why going to couple’s counseling is not the BEST first step to fixing marriage struggles.
In fact, going to couples counseling can cause more harm!
Couples need to do individual work before going to counseling.
If not, then couple’s counseling will only put a bandaid on the deeper issues that are causing the arguments and tension.
Also, if one partner is more committed to doing the homework, then counseling is not going to work.
Finally, if any of the partners are not completely honest, counseling will not work!
So how do you break the cycle?
Working on yourself!
When you can show-up in your marriage as the best version of you…
The arguments will stop!
The distrust won’t happen!
And the resentment will end!
You are not triggered by your partner’s words and actions anymore. You understand that when you are triggered, it is a massie clue into work that you need to do within yourself to release the deeper root of not feeling seen, heard, loved or good enough.
READY TO FIX AND HEAL YOUR MARRIAGE?This is exactly what I show my private clients how to do. If you would like my 1-on-1 help creating a customized Free Marriage Roadmap, then book your Complimentary 15 minute “Marriage Roadmap” call where I will give you a strategy that you can implement right away to get your marriage moving in the direction you need to do to save your marriage fast. That’s it.