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Find a Video for Healing from Betrayal Trauma, Repairing Trust & Saving Your Marriage
Explore conversations with Beth Miller about betrayal, trust, communication, marriage and your nervous system. Choose a topic that speaks to your situation, read the short introduction and watch at your own pace.
120 videos · Each longer than 5 minutes · Organized by topic
What Do You Need Support With?
Start with the concern closest to what you are experiencing today. Select a topic to jump to its videos.
Understanding Betrayal · 14 videos
When you are making sense of what happened and looking for a place to begin.
Trust, Honesty & Uncertainty · 14 videos
When you need clarity about honesty, ongoing contact or what rebuilding trust could involve.
Communication & Feeling Heard · 9 videos
When you want to express yourself and understand patterns in difficult conversations.
Anger, Triggers & Intrusive Thoughts · 15 videos
When feelings, questions or reminders of the affair keep returning.
Boundaries, Forgiveness & Your Choices · 15 videos
When you are reflecting on your needs, painful patterns, staying, leaving or forgiveness.
Closeness, Intimacy & Attachment · 6 videos
When you miss connection or want to understand how you relate to each other.
Exploring Marriage Repair · 23 videos
When you want to explore Beth’s perspective on relationship challenges and possible next steps.
Children & Everyday Family Life · 4 videos
When marriage challenges affect your children, household responsibilities or conversations about money.
Self-Worth, Well-Being & Guided Practices · 11 videos
When you want time for yourself, personal reflection or an introduction to Soulify’s guided practices.
Client Stories & Experiences · 6 videos
When you want to hear how other people describe their experiences. Each relationship and outcome is individual.
Program & Retreat Introductions · 3 videos
Recorded introductions and promotions. Check the website for current offers, dates and availability.
14 VIDEOS
Understanding Betrayal
When you are making sense of what happened and looking for a place to begin.
VIDEO · 33:21
Start here if you want a broader conversation about healing after betrayal. This Q&A offers a place to explore questions at your own pace.
VIDEO · 21:42
For women with questions about moving forward after betrayal. Continue Beth’s Q&A discussion and reflect on what feels relevant to your situation.
VIDEO · 30:50
For women seeking a Q&A conversation about infidelity. A starting point when several concerns are on your mind.
VIDEO · 19:33
Watch if you keep asking why the affair happened. Explore possible reasons discussed by Beth without assuming they explain your own partner’s choices.
VIDEO · 44:15
For women wanting a longer conversation connecting questions about cheating, forgiveness, trust and thought patterns.
VIDEO · 12:38
For women who want reflective questions about betrayal and marriage. Take time to consider your own answers and what matters to you.
VIDEO · 14:34
For women wondering whether a marriage can feel normal after cheating. Explore the question while considering what you want your relationship to become.
VIDEO · 17:44
Watch if you want to explore why husbands may cheat. The discussion presents possibilities, rather than answers about your individual partner.
VIDEO · 15:41
For women exploring marriage after infidelity. A discussion to help you consider the topic of healing and what support you may want.
VIDEO · 24:02
For women looking for a broad discussion of coping after infidelity. Explore the steps presented at a pace that suits you.
VIDEO · 22:22
Watch if you are trying to understand behavior associated with cheating. Consider the discussion without assuming a personality label explains an individual.
VIDEO · 29:44
Explore a Q&A about infidelity in marriage. Useful if you want a broader conversation before choosing a more specific topic.
VIDEO · 24:42
For women wanting a framework for thinking about healing after infidelity. Explore the stages discussed without expecting your experience to follow a fixed order.
14 VIDEOS
Trust, Honesty & Uncertainty
When you need clarity about honesty, ongoing contact or what rebuilding trust could involve.
VIDEO · 14:31
For women wondering what rebuilding trust might involve. Explore the topic while considering your own needs, circumstances and pace.
VIDEO · 24:45
Watch if you feel drawn to check his phone and want space to reflect. Consider questions about what you hope checking will provide.
VIDEO · 17:47
For women facing dishonesty after an affair and considering what to ask next. Explore questions about trust and truth.
VIDEO · 1:02:26
For women reflecting on how betrayal has affected emotional safety and self-worth. This longer conversation also explores rebuilding trust.
VIDEO · 31:14
For women facing dishonesty in their marriage. Beth discusses steps to consider when you believe your husband is lying.
VIDEO · 19:30
Watch if you are exploring what rebuilding trust could involve. Reflect on the approaches presented in relation to your own situation.
VIDEO · 21:25
For women worried about another affair. Explore behaviors discussed in the video without treating them as a prediction about your partner.
VIDEO · 21:42
Watch if your husband and his affair partner still work together. Explore a discussion about moving forward with that ongoing concern.
VIDEO · 22:35
For women preparing questions for an unfaithful spouse. Explore the discussion and consider which questions matter in your own situation.
VIDEO · 15:38
Watch if you know or suspect contact with the affair partner is continuing. Explore the discussion while considering your need for clarity and boundaries.
VIDEO · 9:07
Watch if you are asking where rebuilding trust might begin. Explore Beth’s introductory discussion of the topic.
9 VIDEOS
Communication & Feeling Heard
When you want to express yourself and understand patterns in difficult conversations.
VIDEO · 18:47
For women who feel misunderstood after betrayal. Explore the gap between the words you use and how your husband may hear them.
VIDEO · 11:01
Watch if conversations keep escalating after an affair. Beth discusses possible reasons communication turns into conflict.
VIDEO · 15:11
For women who want the impact of an affair to be understood. Explore a discussion about expressing your pain and seeking understanding.
VIDEO · 5:53
For women looking for a brief discussion about relationship communication. Reflect on how conversations unfold and what you may want to approach differently.
VIDEO · 16:14
Watch if you struggle to feel heard after betrayal. This discussion focuses on communicating your experience and seeking understanding.
VIDEO · 17:31
Explore a discussion about phrases that can cause hurt after an affair. Relevant if conversations feel sensitive or difficult to navigate.
VIDEO · 18:09
Watch if your husband is reluctant to open up after an affair. Explore Beth’s discussion of communication in that situation.
15 VIDEOS
Anger, Triggers & Intrusive Thoughts
When feelings, questions or reminders of the affair keep returning.
VIDEO · 26:43
For women finding that strong emotions affect difficult conversations. Explore a discussion about words and reactions during triggering moments.
VIDEO · 36:24
Watch if you return to the same questions after an affair. Explore a longer discussion about repeated questioning and the need for answers.
VIDEO · 38:03
Watch if anger keeps returning after betrayal. Explore Beth’s discussion of responding to those feelings and considering what may help.
VIDEO · 19:51
Watch if betrayal has left you wanting more control over your partner’s actions. Explore the behavior discussed while reflecting on what you need.
VIDEO · 22:15
For women experiencing anger after an affair. Beth discusses ways to respond to those feelings as you consider your next steps.
VIDEO · 14:27
Watch if intense emotions are affecting how you approach your marriage. Reflect on their place in your relationship and decisions.
VIDEO · 14:55
For women who notice reminders of the affair setting off difficult reactions. Explore the discussion of infidelity triggers.
VIDEO · 21:55
For women feeling furious after betrayal. Explore Beth’s four-step discussion about responding to anger.
VIDEO · 27:06
Watch if the affair has left you feeling insecure. Reflect on the concerns and responses Beth discusses.
VIDEO · 26:30
Watch if painful images related to the affair keep replaying. Explore Beth’s discussion of that experience.
VIDEO · 19:20
Watch if thoughts about the affair keep intruding on your day. Explore the approach Beth presents in this discussion.
VIDEO · 14:54
Watch if Valentine’s Day brings painful reminders after betrayal. Explore a discussion focused on that emotionally difficult occasion.
15 VIDEOS
Boundaries, Forgiveness & Your Choices
When you are reflecting on your needs, painful patterns, staying, leaving or forgiveness.
VIDEO · 14:20
Watch if you are considering contacting the affair partner. Pause with questions to reflect on before deciding whether to reach out.
VIDEO · 49:42
For women reflecting on forgiveness after an affair. Explore the conversation without rushing yourself toward a decision.
VIDEO · 15:56
For women wondering about painful attachment patterns after betrayal. Use the discussion as a starting point for reflection on your relationship.
VIDEO · 18:29
Explore relationship patterns Beth describes as a trauma bond. Relevant if you are trying to understand a painful attachment after betrayal.
VIDEO · 12:31
For women considering cheating, emotional harm and the decision to stay. Reflect on the discussion with attention to your needs and safety.
VIDEO · 10:31
For women reflecting on a second chance after betrayal. Explore reasons women may choose it while considering your own priorities.
VIDEO · 21:11
Watch if controlling behavior is a concern in your marriage. Explore the patterns discussed and reflect on your boundaries and safety.
VIDEO · 18:07
For women who feel pulled toward both staying and leaving. Explore the strategies discussed while making room for your own priorities.
VIDEO · 16:10
Watch if you are deciding whether to read affair messages. Reflect on the question and what you hope to understand.
VIDEO · 20:14
Watch if fear is part of your decision about leaving. Reflect on what is influencing your choices and what support you need.
VIDEO · 20:08
For women considering whether to stay or divorce after infidelity. Explore the conversation while honoring your own circumstances and decision.
VIDEO · 49:42
Another channel upload of the forgiveness discussion. For women who want to reflect on forgiveness after betrayal at their own pace.
6 VIDEOS
Closeness, Intimacy & Attachment
When you miss connection or want to understand how you relate to each other.
VIDEO · 22:53
Watch if closeness after an affair feels intense or confusing. Explore Beth’s discussion of the pattern described as hysterical bonding.
VIDEO · 28:10
For women who want more connection in their marriage. Explore a discussion centered on closeness and the relationship you share.
VIDEO · 29:08
For women reflecting on love in their marriage. Explore the discussion and consider what connection means in your own relationship.
VIDEO · 39:25
Watch if your marriage feels more like sharing a home than sharing a relationship. Explore the conversation about the roommate dynamic.
VIDEO · 37:58
Watch if you feel more like roommates than partners. Explore a conversation about distance and connection in marriage.
VIDEO · 43:13
For women interested in attachment and marriage. Explore the discussion of relationship connections through that lens.
23 VIDEOS
Exploring Marriage Repair
When you want to explore Beth’s perspective on relationship challenges and possible next steps.
VIDEO · 11:14
For women curious about Beth’s approach to marriage repair. Explore a tool she presents for relationship challenges and consider how it fits your circumstances.
VIDEO · 6:04
Watch if you are reflecting on obstacles to marriage repair. A brief discussion to consider alongside your own relationship experience.
VIDEO · 11:14
For women exploring Beth’s approach to marriage challenges. Consider the relationship strategy presented in this discussion.
VIDEO · 17:15
For women concerned about emotional maturity in their marriage. Explore Beth’s discussion of relationship challenges and possible responses.
VIDEO · 10:59
Watch if you feel uncertain about how to approach marriage difficulties. Explore Beth’s perspective as you reflect on possible next steps.
VIDEO · 7:06
For women curious about Beth’s perspective on marriage repair. A brief introduction to the approach she describes.
VIDEO · 45:37
Watch if your husband is unwilling to attend therapy. Explore Beth’s perspective on working with marriage challenges in that situation.
VIDEO · 16:23
For women seeking an overview of Beth’s approach to marriage challenges. Explore three approaches presented in this video.
VIDEO · 22:18
For women exploring what they can do when their partner is not joining couples therapy. Consider Beth’s perspective alongside your own needs.
VIDEO · 17:25
For women asking whether marriage repair is possible. Explore Beth’s perspective as you consider your relationship and choices.
VIDEO · 18:26
For women curious about Beth’s approach to saving a marriage. Explore the perspective presented and consider its relevance to your situation.
VIDEO · 18:51
For women interested in how Beth connects neuroscience with marriage coaching. Watch to understand her explanation of the approach.
VIDEO · 18:09
For women wondering about the possibility of marriage after infidelity. A conversation to consider alongside your own circumstances.
VIDEO · 10:43
Explore a marriage strategy Beth highlights from her work in 2023. Relevant if you want to learn about her coaching perspective.
VIDEO · 56:26
Explore a broad conversation answering marriage questions. Useful if several relationship concerns are on your mind.
VIDEO · 11:50
For women seeking a brief introduction to Beth’s ideas about marriage repair. Explore the perspective she shares.
VIDEO · 42:50
Watch if you prefer learning through questions and answers. This longer discussion focuses on marriage concerns.
VIDEO · 32:51
For women thinking about how to support a husband who is changing. Reflect on the discussion while keeping your own needs in view.
VIDEO · 8:51
For women curious about the marriage-restoration method Beth describes. Watch to understand the approach and consider whether it fits your circumstances.
VIDEO · 15:01
Explore Beth’s discussion of marriage change over ten weeks. Consider the question without assuming a timetable for your own relationship.
VIDEO · 35:21
For women considering efforts to repair a marriage after infidelity. Explore the approaches discussed as you reflect on your own next steps.
4 VIDEOS
Children & Everyday Family Life
When marriage challenges affect your children, household responsibilities or conversations about money.
VIDEO · 25:48
For mothers concerned about how an affair affects children. Explore a conversation about family impact alongside your own children’s needs.
VIDEO · 43:20
Watch if you are concerned about your children’s experience of marital conflict. Reflect on the family impact discussed.
VIDEO · 34:11
Watch if money and budgets are a recurring source of conflict. Explore the relationship conversation around those disagreements.
11 VIDEOS
Self-Worth, Well-Being & Guided Practices
When you want time for yourself, personal reflection or an introduction to Soulify’s guided practices.
VIDEO · 19:53
Watch if you are curious about Soulify Hypnosis Thought Transformation. Beth discusses the approach in relation to marriage challenges.
VIDEO · 52:14
A longer conversation presented as Healthy & Whole Wifestyle. Explore it if you are interested in the channel’s broader relationship and well-being discussions.
VIDEO · 58:03
Explore a conversation about happiness in life and relationships. Relevant if you want to reflect on well-being beyond an immediate marriage problem.
VIDEO · 54:25
For women interested in Soulify’s manifestation perspective. Explore a conversation connecting abundance, relationships and happiness.
VIDEO · 36:26
Watch if you are reflecting on early family relationships. Explore the discussion of what Beth describes as father and mother wounds.
VIDEO · 44:55
Explore a conversation about learning to love yourself and experiences from girlhood. Relevant if you want to reflect on your relationship with yourself.
VIDEO · 31:34
For women reflecting on a difficult life experience. Explore a conversation about meaning and personal perspective without needing to view pain positively.
VIDEO · 39:47
For women curious about Soulify’s guided practices. Sample the relationship-focused breathwork, meditation and hypnosis session.
VIDEO · 39:12
Explore a conversation about happiness in marriage. Relevant if you are reflecting on how you feel and what you want to change.
VIDEO · 45:38
For women curious about inner-child and shadow-work perspectives. Explore how the conversation connects those ideas with relationships.
VIDEO · 31:06
A guided True You Hypno-Journey for women who want to explore Soulify’s meditation style. Set aside time to listen at your own pace.
6 VIDEOS
Client Stories & Experiences
When you want to hear how other people describe their experiences. Each relationship and outcome is individual.
VIDEO · 44:54
Hear one account of a marriage after infidelity. Useful if you prefer learning through personal experiences while considering your own circumstances.
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VIDEO · 1:13:52
Hear a client’s experience when her husband continued working with his affair partner. Relevant if workplace contact is part of your situation.
VIDEO · 45:24
For women who learn through others’ experiences. Hear stories about marriage challenges and the paths people describe taking.
VIDEO · 54:49
Hear a personal perspective on life and marriage after an affair. This is one experience, with room for your own feelings and choices.
VIDEO · 10:11
Hear Marriage Saver client testimonials. Watch if personal accounts help you understand the experiences people describe with the program.
VIDEO · 37:32
Hear a Marriage Saver client interview. Relevant if you want to learn about one person’s experience of the program.
3 VIDEOS
Program & Retreat Introductions
Recorded introductions and promotions. Check the website for current offers, dates and availability.
VIDEO · 8:02
An introduction to the Heartache to Healing virtual retreat. Watch if you want to understand the experience described; check current availability separately.
VIDEO · 11:59
Explore an introduction to the Heartache to Healing virtual experience and its focus on somatic healing after infidelity.
VIDEO · 6:18
An archived Marriage Saver Program promotion. Watch for background on the offer; verify current pricing, dates and availability on the website.
Keep Exploring at Your Own Pace
You can return to a topic whenever you need it. These introductions describe each video’s topic to help you choose where to begin.