I get lots of questions about all things marriage and manifesting!
I wanted to take a moment to answer some of the most common questions that I encounter.
I will debunk some of the most popular myths about marriage and manifestation!
Trust me!
I had some of these questions when I first started my personal journey into creating my dream life!
Question 1- If I focus hard enough and have positive thoughts, will my manifestation come?
The power of positive thinking is amazing! But it is not a guarantee that you will manifest it! And the reason- if you haven’t processed the real reason why you haven’t manifested the marriage you desire, then you may be blocking it.
For example, you may be blocking your manifestation with beliefs such as “I’m not good enough’ or ‘l am not attractive’. Then your mind will easily drift back to these old, repetitive thoughts, then it is difficult to manifest your dreams by positive thoughts alone.
Research shows that while repeating positive affirmations is beneficial, it can take a long time to reprogram those old belief systems about yourself.
Question 2- I can’t ever think a negative thought!
Many people believe that if they think a negative thought, then they will attract that thought, and manifest it! The good and bad thing about the Law of Attraction is that what you think about doesn’t instantly appear. It would be nice if it worked that way!
So the good thing is that just because you have a negative thought it doesn’t mean it will manifest into your life. It takes repetition of both thoughts and actions that align with your manifestation for it to become reality!
Question 3- If my manifestation doesn’t happen right away, then I am doing it wrong?
It can be frustrating when something you want doesn’t appear! Especially if you are trying really hard to manifest it! It can make you want to give up!
The truth is that some things just take time.
There isn’t a specific rule about how much time it takes to manifest something. Sometimes people will get their manifestation that day, or it can take months or years.
The key is how you respond to not getting it!
Be patient, and maintain your intention and keep believing it will come.
If you act from a vibration of desperation, then you are communicating to the universe and your manifestation will not appear with ease.
Question 4- Can I manifest for other people?
You can manifest just about anything into your life, but you can’t manifest for other people.
We all have free will to manifest and create our lives, and you can only control what you do and are. So unfortunately you can’t manifest someone falling in love with you. And you can’t manifest your spouse changing their toxic behavior. In fact, you can’t make someone be anything other than what they already are.
You have to be willing to look at what is in your life! Do you need to raise your standards, your vibration or set better boundaries to attract the right kind of people into your life!
If you want someone who talks and acts a certain way then you may need to change something within you to attract it! Maybe you need to release a block within you that is attracting your current reality! So ask yourself, do you truly believe that you are worthy of better!
YES! I am Interested in Manifesting My Dream Marriage!
I hope I have answered your biggest questions about marriage & manifestation! Book your Complimentary 15 minute “Marriage Roadmap” Call where we will dig deeper into your current marriage challenges. Then I will give you a proven strategy that you can implement right away to get your marriage back on track.
